After my blog post from yesterday, it has come even more to my attention on how much people just suck. An anonymous person decided to comment on my "Mini Bitchfest" and decided to attack me on absolutely no grounds. The sad thing is that it is very common. It didn't hurt my feelings, but other girls/women would take it so personally that would create or enhance their body image issues for the rest of their lives. That is if they don't their life first.
So Mr. Anonymous, this one is especially for you and your kind. Ever heard of Leading by example? Not by fear or hate. You create crisis's out of nothing. You take lives by words. You just take people down just because you feel like it. Typically I wouldn't spend any of my time catering to someone like you, but as always if there is a way to EDUCATE someone, I don't mind. Besides, it is always best to stand on the ground of facts and truth vs. well whatever is going on in your brain.
Lesson #1
Not everyone is made from the same genes. Some are not lucky to have a really high metabolism to eat whatever they want without ever having to go the gym. During life, even the lucky few that have that high metabolism and everyone else, ageing affects everything to gravity, metabolism, water retention and even how many brain cells you have. Those women that chose to have a family and carry a child, changes up their whole body chemistry. All that baby weight may just go away or you have to sweat for it to get close to where you once was.
Now with that said, I was one of those girls that was a size 4 at the height of 5'8" and 140lbs. Athletic and super lean and full of muscle because of all the training I did for sports and my health. Then I became pregnant and at that time my doc told me that my work out regiment was not allowed at all during my pregnancy so needless to say I did gain over a 100lbs and was gigantic. A freaking whale. Metabolism shot to hell and depressed by all means. So after that child, I had 4 more. Five kiddos all together. Then I got my shit together and back on eating right and working out. Lost all that weight and more when I dedicated myself to it. I'm a tall girl. Long legs and long torso. Thank heavens I didn't loose my amazing bootie. :) I'm proud of my achievements. You and no one else can ever take that away from me. I'm 32 years old and getting hit on by 20 year old. I'm finally aging gracefully and healthy. So ya, you are an ass Mr. Anonymous.
Lesson #2
It take one attack dependent on that person to break them. Whether they know who are or you are a complete stranger. It can be said to their face, said the way you did, or tauting in anyway possible to bring someone down to the lowest point of their life. Why do that? There is a quote that has been around a long time, you might know this one: Treat others like you would like to be treated. So with that said, do you enjoy when people make fun of you even though they have no basis to say what they say? Words hurt sometimes more powerful than actions/assaults.
Lesson #3
If you ever want someone to take you seriously.......Don't be afraid to put a face and name behind an attack. Words may hurt like I said, but I bet you wouldn't have said anything if that anonymous option wasn't there or if you made up some name. Keep hiding. No one will ever take you seriously if you can't even stand up for your own self.
Have a shitty day! XoXo
And now it is time for a photo montage:
So Mr. Anonymous, this one is especially for you and your kind. Ever heard of Leading by example? Not by fear or hate. You create crisis's out of nothing. You take lives by words. You just take people down just because you feel like it. Typically I wouldn't spend any of my time catering to someone like you, but as always if there is a way to EDUCATE someone, I don't mind. Besides, it is always best to stand on the ground of facts and truth vs. well whatever is going on in your brain.
Lesson #1
Not everyone is made from the same genes. Some are not lucky to have a really high metabolism to eat whatever they want without ever having to go the gym. During life, even the lucky few that have that high metabolism and everyone else, ageing affects everything to gravity, metabolism, water retention and even how many brain cells you have. Those women that chose to have a family and carry a child, changes up their whole body chemistry. All that baby weight may just go away or you have to sweat for it to get close to where you once was.
Now with that said, I was one of those girls that was a size 4 at the height of 5'8" and 140lbs. Athletic and super lean and full of muscle because of all the training I did for sports and my health. Then I became pregnant and at that time my doc told me that my work out regiment was not allowed at all during my pregnancy so needless to say I did gain over a 100lbs and was gigantic. A freaking whale. Metabolism shot to hell and depressed by all means. So after that child, I had 4 more. Five kiddos all together. Then I got my shit together and back on eating right and working out. Lost all that weight and more when I dedicated myself to it. I'm a tall girl. Long legs and long torso. Thank heavens I didn't loose my amazing bootie. :) I'm proud of my achievements. You and no one else can ever take that away from me. I'm 32 years old and getting hit on by 20 year old. I'm finally aging gracefully and healthy. So ya, you are an ass Mr. Anonymous.
Lesson #2
It take one attack dependent on that person to break them. Whether they know who are or you are a complete stranger. It can be said to their face, said the way you did, or tauting in anyway possible to bring someone down to the lowest point of their life. Why do that? There is a quote that has been around a long time, you might know this one: Treat others like you would like to be treated. So with that said, do you enjoy when people make fun of you even though they have no basis to say what they say? Words hurt sometimes more powerful than actions/assaults.
Lesson #3
If you ever want someone to take you seriously.......Don't be afraid to put a face and name behind an attack. Words may hurt like I said, but I bet you wouldn't have said anything if that anonymous option wasn't there or if you made up some name. Keep hiding. No one will ever take you seriously if you can't even stand up for your own self.
Have a shitty day! XoXo
And now it is time for a photo montage:
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| After my fifth child this is me. Obviously heavy from having a baby. |
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| At work...you know managing a pharmacy a crap. |
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| Fat people as you said I was, can't wear miniskirts. So um you are wrong again. :) |
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| Working out does a body good! |
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| Me...yesterday. Notre Dame Rocking. :) |
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