Facebook lately has been overloaded with special quotes and sayings. I do it too. I find something that means something to me so I share it. It is truly weird though when certain people put some quotes up that they either have no understanding of and/or that they are completely not aware that they are not practicing what they preach.
What you do AND what you say defines you as a character. Not one or the other. You can't live two separate lives. Don't say you hate bullying and people discriminating against others when you were just yesterday making fun of a stranger.
No one is perfect. We all have the bad in us along with the good. People tend not to admit to bad qualities. We've all done things we aren't proud of or sometimes we still do them. It is lying and people do it because they don't want others to think badly of them. For example: a person cheated on their girlfriend with another and didn't even tell their best friend about it for years later. They just didn't want their best friend to think badly of them because they knew what they did was wrong, but did it anyways.
I get that people come with baggage. I myself come with a shit ton. I don't think I would ever take it to heart if someone isn't quite as perfect as they make themselves out to be, it is just the consistent lying is where there would be a problem.
I've caught myself numerous times to posting a return to some of these quotes and stuff people are putting up. I know if I say something to them that all hell will break loose so I bite my tongue. Kinda been doing that so much lately that I got an email from one of my friends saying to me, "Hey...you okay? Your not bitching out people and putting them in their place as much as you used to? Kinda miss it...". This made me smile...a lot. I am that girl that doesn't give a shit, but I've been wrapped up with family issues so I haven't been myself. Hopefully I'll be back to me soon. This whole being stressed about EVERYTHING is getting old.
So here is my tip for you all for the day. Don't be someone your not unless it is Halloween. Other then that you have not excuse for it. :)
What you do AND what you say defines you as a character. Not one or the other. You can't live two separate lives. Don't say you hate bullying and people discriminating against others when you were just yesterday making fun of a stranger.
No one is perfect. We all have the bad in us along with the good. People tend not to admit to bad qualities. We've all done things we aren't proud of or sometimes we still do them. It is lying and people do it because they don't want others to think badly of them. For example: a person cheated on their girlfriend with another and didn't even tell their best friend about it for years later. They just didn't want their best friend to think badly of them because they knew what they did was wrong, but did it anyways.
I get that people come with baggage. I myself come with a shit ton. I don't think I would ever take it to heart if someone isn't quite as perfect as they make themselves out to be, it is just the consistent lying is where there would be a problem.
I've caught myself numerous times to posting a return to some of these quotes and stuff people are putting up. I know if I say something to them that all hell will break loose so I bite my tongue. Kinda been doing that so much lately that I got an email from one of my friends saying to me, "Hey...you okay? Your not bitching out people and putting them in their place as much as you used to? Kinda miss it...". This made me smile...a lot. I am that girl that doesn't give a shit, but I've been wrapped up with family issues so I haven't been myself. Hopefully I'll be back to me soon. This whole being stressed about EVERYTHING is getting old.
So here is my tip for you all for the day. Don't be someone your not unless it is Halloween. Other then that you have not excuse for it. :)
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